Affirmation: I am a dynamic expression of God on the quest to know and reveal more of my true self.
Stuffed With Spiritual Teachings
Growing up in Unity, I was blessed with a foundation of positive thinking and self-empowerment consciousness. Early on, I took to heart the teaching that I am a child of God, claiming my divine identity as the Truth of my being.
My world has been completely transformed by my ongoing quest to grow so that I can live more authentically from my true, or Christ self, through spiritual study and practice.
I used to think of growth as a process of adding new teachings and systems to my spiritual knowledge then demonstrating proficiency in them, but something new has emerged. Adding more spiritual skills has started to feel like adding more stuffing to a pillow. At some point, more isn’t better—it’s just more. Continue to stuff the pillow, and the seams eventually stretch and tear the fabric itself.
My pillow of spiritual knowledge was pretty stuffed. Adding more did not seem to create the same transformational experience it once did.
Unity practitioners are well aware of the power of letting go and our teachings about denials and renunciation. Charles Fillmore, Unity cofounder, described denials as the mental process of erasing false beliefs and making room for the establishment of Truth.
Similarly, he described renunciation as letting go of old thoughts so that new thoughts might find a place in consciousness. Both are important building blocks to spiritual transformation.
Then I started to notice a new type of letting go emerging. It was more of an undoing that didn’t involve some new teaching to replace it.
Kenosis: To Empty Oneself
I first learned the term kenosis from author Cynthia Bourgeault. The word comes from the Greek verb kenosein and means to empty oneself. Kenosis is not the same as denials or even renunciation.
In both denials and renunciation, there is a subtle, yet distinct, pushing away from something toward something else. Kenosis is a self-emptying through willingness to let things come and go without grabbing on.
Jesus described chaff burning away in a divine fire. And while we’ve all probably experienced a form of this, what makes kenosis distinct is that the fire takes what we have labeled positive as well as negative. Therefore, spiritual identities that have felt integral to the expression of our higher selves start to be burned away too.
I experienced this recently as I began to feel divine discontent in serving as minister of the church where I grew up. Meditator, minister, spiritual guide, mystic, teacher, spiritual leader—one by one all these spiritual identities lost their structure as expressions of my true self.
What is most remarkable is that I let them.
At first it was painful, like a loss of my spiritual identity. Then I started to experience a new type of freedom. There was a sense of the choiceless choice, where everything I came to count on as my sense of spiritual self was less real.
The Experience of Emptiness
At that point, it felt like this dissolution was an essential part of revealing a new expression of my true self.
What at first felt like a void has turned into a full emptiness—a true self that is reminiscent of what Thomas Merton described this way:
At the center of our being is a point of nothingness which is untouched by sin and by illusion, a point of pure truth, a point or spark which belongs entirely to God, which is never at our disposal, from which God disposes of our lives, which is inaccessible to the fantasies of our own mind or the brutalities of our own will. It is like a pure diamond, blazing with the invisible light of heaven. It is in everybody, and if we could see it we would see these billions of points of light coming together in the face and blaze of a sun that would make all the darkness and cruelty of life vanish completely ... I have no program for this seeing. It is only given. But the gate of heaven is everywhere.
The expression of your true self and how you identify with the divinity that you are will take many forms throughout your lifetime. It certainly has in mine so far, and I expect it will continue to evolve. If you are in a period of acquiring new skills and growing in consciousness by learning and demonstrating New Thought principles, beautiful. Let your true self shine as the light of God and delight in the new positive sense of self you are inhabiting more and more.
For others, the sense of growth might have taken on another flavor, the flavor of letting go in a way you never associated with spiritual growth. If this is your experience, know that this is a process many have experienced before you. It doesn’t mean anything is wrong. It is a turning toward another dimension of your true self, a dimension that is more nothingness than somethingness. Continue to let the kenosis undo you.
No matter the essence of your quest to know and reveal more of your true self, you are ever-evolving, ever-changing, and always a dynamic expression of God. Go forth and live it.
- The End of Your World, Adyashanti
- Everything Belongs, Richard Rohr
- The Holy Trinity and the Law of Three, Cynthia Bourgeault