Recently, I wrote a post with journal writing prompts on the mothers in our lives. The response from readers was so positive, with many expressing gratitude for the chance to reflect and deepen their appreciation for the mother figures that have shaped them. In light of this feedback, it became evident that a Father’s Day version was not only fitting but necessary.

Father’s Day is a time to honor the fathers and father figures who have been essential in our personal growth and development. What better way to do that than in your journal? Journaling provides a powerful avenue for introspection and self-discovery, allowing us to explore the unique qualities, experiences, and lessons our father figures have imparted to us.

As with the journaling prompts for Mother’s Day, use these prompts as they are the most helpful. Feel free to adjust them to your unique circumstances or use only those that resonate with you.

Reflection on the Father Figures in Your Life

Your father figure could be a stepdad, uncle, grandfather, teacher, coach, or simply a family friend. You could have more than one father figure.

Take some time to reflect on your father figure(s) with these prompts:

  1. Who have been the most impactful father figures in your life? What have they taught you?
  2. What are your values and beliefs about fatherhood and the place for fathers?
  3. How would your life be different without your father figures in it?
  4. If you could give your father anything for Father’s Day, what would you give him?
  5. What is the best way to celebrate and honor your father figure? If he has already made his transition, how might you honor his memory?
  6. What is your favorite memory of your father figure from childhood?
  7. If you were to make your father a playlist of songs to celebrate him, what would be on it?
  8. How are you and your father figure different? How are you similar?
  9. If your father were a superhero, what would his power be?
  10. What are your favorite traditions you have with your father?

Learning from Your Father

It’s possible you have a challenging relationship with your father. Even if your relationship is wonderful, there are conflicts and challenges in every relationship. However, it’s also important to keep in mind that we do most of our learning and growing because of challenges. Take a moment to reflect on what your father figure has taught you, even in the difficulties.

  1. What have been the most significant challenges with your father? How have you grown and evolved as a result of these challenges?
  2. Write about a conflict you have had with your father. Write a few paragraphs from his perspective about it.
  3. How has your relationship with your father figure shaped the person you have come to be?
  4. How have you found healing and forgiveness with your father? Do you still need to forgive him?
  5. What have you learned from your father figure?

Father’s Day and Grief

Father’s Day can be a painful time for those who have experienced a father figure’s transition. It can be a somber day of grief and reflection. If this is your experience, use the following prompts to reflect on your relationship with your father.

  1. Write a letter to your father. Tell him what you miss about him and what you most appreciated about him.
  2. What are some of your favorite memories of your father figure?
  3. What are some traditions you had with your father? How can you continue to honor those traditions?
  4. Write about something significant that has happened in your life since your father figure’s transition. What would you want to tell him about it now?
  5. What did your father help you achieve when he was alive? How did he help you grow?
  6. What have you learned about your father figure since his transition?

Father’s Day is a time to honor the fathers and father figures who have been essential in our personal growth and development. What better way to do that than in your journal?

Your Journey with Fatherhood

Are you a parent of any kind? Do you have nieces and nephews? Do you have grandchildren or pets? Take a moment to reflect on how your experience with your own father figure has affected your parenting style.

  1. What are your parenting strengths and weaknesses? Did you learn any of these from your father figure?
  2. What has being a parent taught you? When thinking of your father figure and his parenting style, what parenting goals do you have?
  3. What has brought you joy and satisfaction as a parent? What is the most challenging aspect of parenting?
  4. Do you have any traditions or rituals with your child(ren)? Are there any you could start?

Reflecting on Fatherhood in General

Use these prompts to reflect on fatherhood in general.

  1. What is a good father figure to you?
  2. What does the ideal Father’s Day look like for you?
  3. Write about a particular way you celebrate fatherhood in your community.
  4. Who are some fathers that inspire you? What are your favorite traits and qualities of theirs? How do you want to embody those qualities?
  5. How can you be the father of your own experience? What does that mean to you?

Father’s Day is a different experience for everyone. No matter what your circumstances, take some time to reflect in your journal on your experience of fathers.

About the Author

Sara Crawford is a digital content specialist at Unity World Headquarters. She is also a playwright and the author of Time After Time as well as The Muse Chronicles trilogy. For more information, please see

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